One year for Valentine’s day, the guy I was dating couldn’t go out with me because some of his friends would be in town. They were planning a big get together. We decided to go out later that week to celebrate the holiday. On Valentine’s day, I helped my boyfriend make food, clean his apartment, and get everything ready for his guests. It was a lot of work! The next day, he complained to me how tired he was after driving someone home, six hours round trip. Turns out, he didn’t have friends coming to town, he had one